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Overnight Santa...

Overnight Santa ... He was clearly disappointing me big time.. As my cell ranged I heard him say at the other end " Hey Neelima .. Can't make it to Lab tonight for our planned experiment .. Going for the rock show tonite ..cya in a bit".. I looked with exasperation on phone screen ..his heavy Metallica ring tone had already started reverberating in my phone .. " this Metallica generation " I muttered to myself  and put it off.. Mike Henderson  my undergrad trainee at Merkert Chemistry Centre , Boston College though a likeable typical Amerikan  yo yo kind of rap chap but surely not my cup of tea as a trainee .. I muttered to myself shaking my head off....I was fast  loosing hope of ever getting him to seriously concentrate on our designed experiments and to take the lab work seriously::.. His lack of patience for bookish concepts and knowledge never failed to irk me and make me more and more hopeless.." Hey ! Chill lady .. We will make it happen.. ...

Dreams in a lazy dopahar..

Dreams in a lazy dopahar.. We were three of us .sitting under the sardiyon ki bheeni dhoop in our college lawns... Gulmohar flowers dropping from the tree above  in our Laps...Young girls with loads of dreams and    plans dripping from our dreamy eyes.. With books sprawled in front of us..but minds floating away in the vast oceans of dreamy waves..I looked up at my bestie and we both laughed and together yelled " dream time..!! Ok let's dare to dream girls " I got up and added " so out girls .. Let's dream and let's share our dream".. My bestie turned to me " out with urs first ".. Lying on that warm grass under the sun that lazy afternoon with my dupatta over my face to protect my burning pink face from direct rays  of the sun I dreamily sang " All I want is a cosy home somewhere ..far away from the cold night air.. With a loving hubby and an adorable dog and that would be lovely just lovely "..๐ŸŽถ My bestie burst out laughing at t...

The lady Santa...

The lady Santa.... It was Christmas time .. In fact it was in all probability going to be a white Christmas this  year too...the pre Christmas festivities were already in the air.. Santas..gifts.. Stockings.. Carols.. Jingle bells.. Snowman Sleighs...Mistletoe leaves....goodies  All around me.... All as if singing and swaying around us in a festive mood .. As I walked out of lab wishing all my lab mates a very Merry Christmas and happy vacations .. I could see and hear the warm greetings and wishes everywhere around me...I could see most of my colleagues and lab mates taking excited and expectant  steps back home ....everyone seems to be looking forward to something ...there was an expectant hop in each step that day... I inhaled a deep breath and hopped into the green line T for my back home journey:. As I walked on I couldn't help noticing the expectant hop missing in my steps .. I smiled at the lovey dovey couple next to me in the train and as I squeezed myself away...

Mr Trouble shooter ...

Mr. Trouble Shooter..... It was quite and dark .. But so beautiful and pleasant outside that after finishing my dinner I had no desire to retire to my room ..decided to go for a after dinner stroll . As I stepped outside... the Bangalore pleasant air welcomed me with its caressing touch and I smiled inhaling the fresh air..as I walked into the quite IISc campus that late Nov evening.  I have been to so many campuses through out my career both within India and abroad .. Each had its own ambience and flavour..but there is one common thing I notice about all the campuses .. All of them have a world of their own.. They have their own character ..structured environment and way of doing things.. But mostly there is a sense of sanitized protective feel about all campuses where academic community is nurtured and facilitated to disseminate and absorb knowledge.. In their own particular way..as I walked towards the academic buildings of IISc  I paused just infront of the Centr...

Dilbar Ki mausikhi....

Dilbar Ki mausikhi.... As I slid into the cab and he started driving into the streetlight  lit roads of delhi .. I noticed how quite and deserted  the roads looked then.. I suddenly realised how sleepy  Delhi gets all of a sudden in the night.. Feeling a bit already unnerved .. I shivered in the Chill of the Nov night.. The chiffon dress I was wearing was hardly  able to give me any warm protection.. wrapping the woollen stole I was carrying around me.. I sat back in the backseat of the cab.. Trying to relax after a hard day at work and then at a boring official dinner .slipping my stilettos off ...I sighed and closed my eyes ..almost dropping off on the back seat of the cab.. Mere Rashke Qamar ๐ŸŽถ๐ŸŽถ tune pehli nazar jab nazar se milayi..Maza aa gaya๐ŸŽถ. . The blaring music and song..Almost jolted me out of my slumber..before I could sit up ..the driver turned back giving me a big toothy smile ... " madam volume dheek hai? Bole toh adjust kar doon"?.. Feeling a ...

The adamant aunt and nose ring...

The adamant aunt and nose ring... I was in one of those moods when you are ready to experiment with things .. It was my wedding time...starry eyed.. ๐Ÿ’๐ŸŒŸExcited ... Self pampering time.๐ŸŽ. Clothes ...jewellery ..  Looking ahead at life with lots of excitement. .. Indulgent times .. .. Was on one of those indulgent shopping visits to Aligarh..was in the Mecca of aligarh shopping arena ..( read Amir Nishan)..with a well meaning aunt who very kindly and rather too excitedly offered to help me in my shopping adventures..we were looking for the correct shade of  dupatta to go with one of my dresses.. When aunt suddenly stopped near a jewellery shop .and in a halted mode all of a sudden she announced in an excited tone  .. " arre ! we totally forgot to get ur nose pierced.. Bina Nath ki Bhi koi dulhan hoti hai kya... It will look so good on u..in fact will suit u a lot....chalo  chalo lets get it done right away.. "... Now ! though  I was quite clear on my take o...

Qarib Qarib Couple ...

Qarib Qarib Couple ... They say "virtual world is an unreal world .. It doesn't always relate with reality".. True often true.. But sometimes this virtual world also  accidentally throw some odd surprises ..this online virtuality just accidentally at times do translates into an unexpected reality offline.... Something which is so untouchable or non belonging suddenly just comes alive and starts  falling into place.. Astonishing  not just the onlookers/ audiences but even the main stakeholders /players themselves. Yogi ( irfan) and Jaya ( Parvathy)..are one such odd odd non belonging online bumpers .. The two are as alike as chalk and cheese  from each other..But both  are living a life that is apparently complete at the peril  but lonely from within.. Both are middle aged .. Both have lived thier lives before ... Both are carrying  the burden and marks of their past lives and relationships."...The beautiful part of the movie is both are shown to b...